Cynthia Nixon and her lover (BTW her lover is a chick)

I know, I know it is hard to tell. These two just fascinate me. For one Cynthia Nixon has NOT always been a lesbo this is a new gig for her, I think she was actually married (yes married) to a guy for a real long time. Then he must have really done something terrible (fart during sex) and she then dumped him and went lesbian sheik (a bad choice of words). I mean if you are going to go Lesbian and introduce your new girl lover to the world shouldn't she at least be attractive. I mean Cynthia you are famous you could get someone better than this. Dare I even say someone kinda Hot. I mean Ellen picks up hot chicks all the time (except Anne Heche). Weird.